Do you want to become confident? How to build self confidence?
People who lack self confidence usually suffer from lack of confidence due to the thoughts they think and keep saying to themselves. If someone keeps thinking to himself that he is not good enough and stays focusing on what he lacks, his subconscious mind hears these words and get programmed with these negative thoughts, hence it affects his emotions.
To learn how to build self confidence, follow the quick steps below:
1. Examine The Causes
The first thing you need to build confidence is to examine the causes of why you lack confidence. Do you lack confidence because you are shy? Lack a certain skill? Lack knowledge? You have to understand the causes first, so you can build self confidence.
2. Learn New Skills
Once you have examined the root cause, begin to learn new skills that will help you improve yourself confidence. For example, if you are not confident to give a speech in front of others, then work on developing your public speaking skills. If you want to be confidence to talk about a certain topic, then learn all you can about that topic. Whatever the cause is, there are skills that you need to learn to help you overcome the causes of lack of confidence.
3. Practice
As you have heard, practice makes perfect. After you learn the new skills to become confident, then you need to practice as much as possible. For example, if you are a singer and want to work on improving your singing voice, you have to practice until your range expands. The more you practice, the more your voice range expands, hence you will become more confident in singing.
4. Smile
Your smile says a lot about who you are. With your smile, you display confidence and ease without ever saying a word. Smiling shows you are comfortable with yourself and with who you are. Your mile affects your whole body.
From now on, when you pass by someone smile and see the effect that it has on your confidence.
5. Give To Others
There is a universal law that tells us that when we give without wanting anything in return, we receive. The gifts you get in return will be more than what you have given. It could be an increase in your salary, finding the love of your life, peace of mind, among other things. Start giving to others from your heart, so you can start experiencing this powerful law of giving.
Group Discussion
Please share with us what other tips you have for building up self confidence.
